“If your brother sins against you, go tell him his fault between you and him alone.” [Matthew 18:15].
One of the themes of this week’s reading is accountability…by our Lord, the holy church and literally each individual. The accountability is to support the truth of love within the church. Any act which opposes acts of love shall be considered wicked. This accountability could be considered cyclical in its nature.
1. Our lord teaches us through his word that to remain in wickedness is to die.
2. We are required to love each member of the church.
3. Our lord gives us a specific protocol (you will notice how strong the commandment of love is): speak with your brother/sister privately if they sin against you, if no resolution may be found we are required to ask a few close friends to listen to the argument objectively and help decide the truth of the matter, if still no resolution may be found we are required to go to the church. If all fails, then we are required to relinquish our relationship with them as someone who has chosen wickedness and death. This is someone unwilling to follow Christ and be a part of the church. This does not mean that we should stop loving them however!
4. Our purpose is to glorify, honor and praise the Lord our God. To be gathered in Christ means we must all follow his commandment to love one another. This ‘protocol’ ensures that those who gather to pray do so with their hearts in the right place and also ensure they do not judge other solely on their opinions but with that of church. How often do we skip several steps in our Lord’s protocol in approaching others when they have hurt us. Do not many of us simply ignore other who have hurt us and have nothing to do with them. This is unacceptable to our Lord.[Matthew 18:15-20]
A pillar of our Catholic faith is the Sacrament of Reconciliation. “Those who approach the Sacrament of Penance obtain pardon from God’s mercy for the offense committed against him, and are, at the same time , reconciled with the Church which they have wounded by their sins and which by charity (love), by example, and by prayer labors for their conversion.” [Catechism of the Catholic Church 1422] Humans are wicked and our heart’s hardened by sin. Again, in order to be prepared individually and as a church to glorify God above all things we need to be converted, to be restored. If done correctly, this is obtained through the Sacrament of Reconciliation. God’s gives us the strength to begin anew. Our heart’s are converted by looking upon the One who’s sins have pierced. [Catechism of the Catholic Church 1432].
Lord, thank you for the opportunity to be converted by your grace and blessings. May we overcome our pride and fear in order to glorify you above all things.
